When confessing to a girl, if the girl clearly refuses with reasons such as "we are not suitable" or "I believe you can find a better one", I believe most boys will choose to give up.
But if a girl refuses in an ambiguous way like "Let's just be friends", many boys will be confused and don't know whether they should continue pursuing her.
I treat you as my girlfriend, but you just treat me as an ordinary friend. Is there anything more embarrassing than this?
Next, let’s first analyze what girls say: Still be friends" means.
1. Want to know more
If a girl rejects you with "Let's just be friends" Finally, if you send her a message, she will reply to you. If you ask her to hang out, she will not refuse. If you even reveal a little bit of shyness in your words and deeds, it means you still have a chance.
Because usually in this case, the girl does not really reject you, she still wants to know more about you and think about it again. Some brothers want to ask again, why does the girl insist on duplicity when she obviously has a crush on me?
Some girls just like to be reserved. She will feel that if she agrees to you too quickly, it will reduce her influence in the world. The value in your heart. In this case, you have to maintain the current relationship and continue to show your high value on the basis of creating a sense of comfort. Let girls see your sincerity and deepen their affection for you, and things will happen naturally.
2. I want to develop you into a spare tire
If a girl rejects you and continues to treat you Stay by her side, enjoy your kindness to her, and accept the gifts without fail. Even if you invite her to dinner, she won't refuse. If nothing happens, she will chat with you to relieve her loneliness.
When you are discouraged and ready to give up, she will give you a shot in the arm to make you come back to life and continue to work for her. Then she is using you as a backup.
In this case, it is impossible for you to turn your spare tire into a regular one. After all, they have clearly told you that we are friends.
3. Reject you
On the surface, we should still be friends.
I turned around and didn’t reply to WeChat or answer the phone.
When you ask her to meet you always say:
Sorry, I have something to do at home.
Oops, I’m so sorry, my friend made an appointment with me today.
I’m sorry, the weather is not very good today, I really don’t want to go out.
This means that what the girl said, let’s just be friends, is not what she said., willing to continue to be friends with you. The moment you confessed your love, you were already ruled out.
Such girls usually cannot say anything to reject you directly, but use friends as an excuse to slowly alienate you.
In this situation, you have two options:
1. Give up
2. Make yourself better and better
Finally, I would like to remind everyone: Confession is not a clarion call for charge, but a triumphant song of victory. In the end, what determines two people to be together is attraction, not confession, so don't confess randomly unless you have to. In addition to the above situation, if you have other emotional doubts, you can add and I can help you answer them by private messaging at any time. You can also receive a free guide to flirting with girls. One gift package.
