There are not so many mutual feelings in the world. Often the girl you like may not like you that much, or even have no feelings for you. Therefore, if you want to be with the girl you like, you still need to rely on yourself in the end. If you try your best to actively pursue it, how can you catch the girl you like?
Many people blame their appearance and money for not being able to catch the girl they like. But in fact, most girls are not related to appearance. The so-called appearance is just a girl’s first impression of you. Whether you have money or not is not a rigid indicator of whether you can catch her, but the standard after marriage.
If a boy wants to chase the girl he likes, he only needs to possess 3 qualities:
1. Pay attention to the sense of ritual and make girls look forward to you
Relationships are a process from strangers to acquaintances, and from acquaintances to falling in love, so the first step you need to do is The best thing is to make her curious about you and look forward to every date you have, so that you can establish an emotional connection and move from strangers to acquaintances.
For example: when you just meet a girl, even if you like her very much, you should not always be attentive to her. Instead, you should keep your sense of mystery and actively keep a distance from the other person. But you Make careful arrangements for your itinerary and places to eat.
Because the sense of ceremony when meeting for the first time is enough to change the direction of your future development, so before going out, dress up, preferably some formal clothes or casual or sportswear, to show your enthusiasm for this date. Pay attention, and when it comes to speaking, you must learn to know what to say and what not to say.
Be sure to note that your current relationship is just acquaintance, so don’t cross the line easily. When shopping or eating, you must be more gentlemanly. When shopping, protect the other person during the meal. When you are together, help each other prepare tableware or help each other get clothes.
Of course, at the end of the day, you can also prepare a bouquet of flowers and give it to the other person, and then say to the other person: "I wanted to give you the flowers when we just met, but think about us. It will be tiring to go to so many places, so I thought it would be better to give you the flowers when we are done, so that you won’t be tired when you finish this series. After the incident, the other party will definitely have a good impression of you, and may even look forward to meeting you next time. However, you must maintain your grace. After sending the other party off, you only need to ask the other party to rest early. Do not keep looking for topics. Chat with the other person, because this will only lead to too much contrast in your image, which will be unacceptable to the other person.
2. Show your qualities and make her like you
Girls will not easily define a man by meeting once or twice. They will judge what kind of person you are more by your daily habits, so when you are separated, During the time, you have to show your quality of life and living habits through various social software.
For example: every time you post on Moments, it is best not to forward any articles or links, but to show your own attitude towards life or insights. Of course, this must be positive and do not show it easily. To show off one's relatively down state, but also to consolidate one's own image.
For example, I love reading and fitness, and sometimes I go to a coffee shop to work, showing that my life is colorful.
Of course when doing these things, you must face up to your problems. Since you dare to show these aspects, then you have to develop in this area, because if you are just to establish your own image, Then you will definitely have quarrels or even break up because of these issues in the future.
Only by showing yourself consistently and truly can you make the other person feel good about you and trust you.
3. Take the initiative to keep a distance and let the other party have a desire to conquer
When you complete the first and second steps In the second step, the other person has already developed a liking for you and may even have the idea of ??being with you, but you must hold yourself in check and don't lower your boundaries easily, but take the initiative to keep your distance from the other person.
Of course, this is not for you to show indifference, but for you to show that you also have a good impression of the other person. However, because of the relationship between the two, you have to pay attention to the distance between you and the other person, and guide her to let her If she takes the initiative to move closer to you, and if you persist a little bit more and pretend not to understand the other person's love, you can trigger the other person's desire to conquer.
In fact, if you want to attract someone, you should always look for external factors to blame. Instead, you must start from internal factors and make yourself better, then you can naturally attract her.
