The relationship between a man and a woman is something that you and I are willing to do, rather than just your unilateral wishful thinking and stalking. Therefore, if you want to catch up with the girl you like, you still need some methods. The editor will give it below. Let’s share the most effective ways to chase girls.

1. What are the ways to pursue girls?

The first type of pursuit is to please. , give a girl whatever she likes, such as giving gifts to girls, asking after her, bringing her meals to and from get off work, etc.

The second type of pursuit is to cater to one's own preferences. Everything is done according to one's own preferences. They will attract girls by improving their own charm, such as dressing themselves up carefully, working hard to make money to buy a car and a house, and exercising to maintain good fitness. Body shape etc.

No matter what method you use to pursue a girl, the core of it is still these two pursuit methods. As long as these two methods reach a balance point, you can get along with girls happily, but once the balance is lost, there are many disadvantages.

As the two most common ways to chase girls, which one is the most effective still depends on the personality of the user.

If you have a cheerful personality, like to chat and be lively, and are quite romantic, then you can get along with her in the same way as pursuing a girl, because your own energy is enough to support the romantic atmosphere between the two of you.

If you are an introvert, taciturn and give silently, it is best to use the second method, because introverts will be calmer, easier to calm down and focus on one thing, and have more time to be alone. To make yourself better. If such a person gives some windows and hints, girls will be willing to pursue him.

2. Disadvantages of the pursuit of ingratiation

Regarding the pursuit of ingratiation, many brothers will say that this is not Is it just a dog licker? In fact, there is no problem in giving for a girl in love. The reason for becoming a dog licker is mostly because you have too low self-esteem and feel that you are not worthy of the girl, so giving becomes a matter of pleasing and catering. , naturally he will not be liked by girls, and may even be looked down upon.

If you want to pursue a girl, you must show yourself on the basis of sunshine, gentleness, comfort and full of energy. For example, some people may think that the idol dramas we watch are fake. Indeed, some scenes are quite fake, but art comes from life. You will find that the male protagonist has never confessed to a girl, but instead tried his best to create a little love for her. Surprise, do some romantic things, and give her some gifts in the form of stories. The girl is so moved that it becomes easy to hold her hand or kiss her.

Even in the early stages, girls rejected the male protagonist again and again, but their mentality is easy to handle, so when chasing girls, you must control your mentality and don’t feel thatAfter being rejected by girls two or three times, I gave up.

Just like the male protagonist in an idol drama, learn to enjoy the process of pursuit, and find a way to please the girl every time instead of just paying stupidly.

3. The disadvantages of catering to one’s own pursuits

The disadvantage of catering to one’s own pursuits is that one cannot grasp the With such force, it is easy for girls to think that you are playing with your feelings, not sincere, or that you are showing off.

Therefore, brothers who want to pursue girls in this way must learn to take care of each other's feelings. Do more to improve hard values, such as: cultural quality, moral quality, money and materials, self-cultivation, etc.

You need to spend more time on yourself. What you have to do is that when others mention you, they will praise you and want to introduce their girls to you. You will be the focus of the girls at the party.

If you are a girl, when faced with Wen Neng’s speech, Wu Neng takes off his clothes and exposes his abdominal muscles. Can you resist a man who can cook in the kitchen and go out to work in the hall?

The last thing I want to say is that the relationship between men and women is actually an exchange of values. I believe you prefer fair skin, beauty and long legs rather than a fat girl weighing 160 pounds. Just like girls, they also hope to find a worthy man.

If you can’t provide them with the value they want, then why should you complain and complain? Is it possible that those men who work hard to make themselves better will find it as difficult to pick up girls as you do. In other words, women like lazy, hopeless men and don't like self-disciplined and motivated men. Does this fit the setting of your fairy tale?

Be careful, brothers. If you want to live your life as you imagined, you must work twice as hard. If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight.