Some boys often have nothing to do with a girl after their first date. In fact, this means that I don’t know how to chat, and I talked about some taboo topics that girls like to talk about. Below I will summarize what you should never say on a first date and tell you how to chat with girls.
1. Do you like me?
Say it on WeChat This sentence will only show that you are very brainless!
If a girl doesn’t like you, will she still sit down with you to eat, chat and watch a movie? Can a girl agree to go on a date with you, or I have a crush on you, or I want to get along with you, and get to know you personally.
If you ask this question directly on the first date - of course, it is not ruled out that some girls will prefer you to be rough, direct and not sloppy.
But judging from Jingsan’s experience, this sentence is definitely a minefield for most girls.
Especially if the other person doesn’t have a strong impression of you, then when you ask this question, it will only reveal your lack of confidence, scare the other person, and reduce the other person’s favorability towards you. .
Actually, you don’t need to ask questions to know whether the other person likes you. You can obviously tell by observing her attitude when talking to you, her eyes, physical contact and the feedback she gives when you make an appointment next time. Know.
2. Can I hold your hand? Can I kiss you?
When you ask this question, you have already been rejected.
Originally it was possible to hold hands and kiss, but now it becomes impossible when I ask this question.
How do you ask a girl to answer such a question? If a girl likes you, if she agrees, she will appear too unreserved. If she doesn't agree, she will be afraid that you will no longer associate with her.
If a girl doesn’t like you that much and answers “no” directly, then the atmosphere will be particularly awkward. Isn’t that annoying?
If you want to hold hands and kiss, just say “no” directly. Just create a good atmosphere and wait for the opportunity. The dating process is very ambiguous, so when crossing the street or in a dark environment, it is a good time for you to make a move!
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3. Mentioning your ex
This is an absolute taboo. Regardless of whether you are on a date or not, bringing up this topic will basically arouse girls' disgust. Whether you say good or bad about your ex, it is wrong, because it is wrong to mention it.
If you say your ex is very nice, she will think that you are still thinking about your ex now that you have separated.You are so nice to her, but you haven’t dealt with your relationship yet. Why should I get involved?
If you say something bad about your ex, she might think that you are a boy with a problem with your character, and you are not like your ex. They were separated, and now they say bad things about her behind her back. After all, she loved her before, and now she doesn't even keep her mouth shut.
Then if she is with you and becomes your ex-girlfriend, wouldn’t the end be just as miserable?
Of course, if a girl asks you this question, your best The answer is: Let the past go. I just want to know you a little better now.
4. Have you ever considered getting married? Do you like children?
Question These words will make girls think that you are too anxious. After all, we are just dating for the first time, and you are already asking such questions. And it will make her think that you just want to get married and have children, so you are chasing her in a hurry.
She will doubt whether your love for her is true, and whether you are using women as breeding tools to carry on the family line.
There are thousands of topics to talk about. Don’t ask about trivial matters if you get closer.
5. What should we do next?
We have been It is said that to chase girls, you need to learn to lead them, so when you ask this question, girls have already begun to be disappointed in you. On the surface, you may pretend to be very casual and say, "It's alright, it's up to you." In fact, I am already complaining about you as a boy who is not responsible, not proactive enough, and has no leadership.
Girls generally don’t like boys who walk in front of them and can protect them from wind and rain. Girls still need to decide “what to do next”.
So, before going on a date, you must plan the date in advance.
What girls want is the right to choose, not the right to make decisions.
6. Are you too picky?
Many boys think "You're so beautiful and you don't have a partner, are you too picky?" This is a compliment to a girl. It praises her beauty and at the same time raises her own value. It's the best of both worlds.
But in the minds of girls, if you ask this question, it means that you are a person who is not smart, polite, and can't speak.
When a girl hears this sentence, the key point she hears is that you are criticizing her love life, and you think she is "too picky", although she knows that she is just not destined to be, and she just doesn't want to. I'll make do with it, but when I hear you ask this, I might just want to replyReply: None of your business. Why, you didn’t choose?
